I get what you mean. Depression is something people who dont suffer from it dont understand, and its damn-near impossible to explain it to them. Ugh.
It wouldn’t even matter if they understood. The hardest part is even if they accept that I have a problem, they can’t see it so they think I can just snap out of it at will like it’s nothing. They think it’s laziness and it’s really not. Like, if I had cancer or something, they’d give me recovery time. I can’t just snap out of it when I feel like it. I fucking wish I could.